2 steps to make him have impulsive love for you

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make him love you

Step 1 – To make him love you become emotionally in-tune with him.

If you ever want a man to feel a deep intense, almost addictive love for you, then you need to become emotionally in-tune with him.


What do I mean when I say emotionally in-tune?

I basically mean that to make him love you you need to connect with the emotional part of his mind rather than the logical part.

Most women don’t get this; in fact, most women dress sexy, cook great meals and try to logically convince a man to like them. But that doesn’t work because they’re missing the most important element of the puzzle. That element is “EMOTION”.

Have you ever seen a woman who can make any guy go absolutely crazy for her and do the dumbest and sometimes even embarrassing things to please her?

And at the same time have you ever seen a woman who does everything right, yet she is never able to get the love or attention she desperately desires from her man?

What is the difference between the two?

The woman in my first example understands the critical concept of becoming emotionally in-tune with a man and as a result, she is able to make a man literally dance to her tunes, while most women try really hard yet struggle.

Bottom line is that you will always struggle with men unless you become emotionally in-tune with them, if you don’t get this, then you are only spinning your wheels without getting anywhere.

I’ll show you a ridiculously easy way to do it in a moment, but before that let me give you the
second step.

Step 2 – Establish yourself as a valuable asset in his mind.

Why are diamonds so valuable? Is it because they look pretty? Is it because they’re expensive? The fact is, diamonds are valuable because they’re rare and not easy to acquire. They’re perceived as something very valuable.

In order to make a guy go almost nuts about you, you need to present yourself as a super valuable asset, exactly like a diamond.

You need to position yourself in a way, that he would be absolutely scared to lose you and would even fight to keep you for as long as possible.

You see, something weird gets triggered inside a man when he knows that you’re this valuable asset.

His animalistic instinct awakens and he feels a strong inner drive to protect you, fight for you
and never let you go.

Every guy is a born hunter, they all have a hunter instinct embedded deep within their subconscious mind and this only awakens when a woman presents herself as this special prize to be won.

During this process, a man can’t help but act on this instinct and will chase you as hard as humanly possible.

In fact, he will feel absolutely lucky to have you around him and will even value whatever time and attention he gets from you.

So now you must be wondering, how do I do it?

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He Dumped Me – How Do I Get Over It

get_over_him_date_someone_else Everyone hopes that their relationships will stand the test of time. Unfortunately, though, many relationships fail–and most of us end up dealing with more than a few broken hearts during our lifetimes. It’s tough enough when a breakup happens as a mutual decision; however, when a guy dumps you, that can make it even more difficult to handle.

If he dumped you and you need some help in getting over the loss, read the following suggestions and give them a try. They will help you to live through the stormy days following the breakup and come out on the other side feeling ready to move on.

1. Go ahead and grieve.

While it may sound melodramatic to ‘grieve’ over a breakup, you have experienced a deep loss. Therefore, you need to grieve and get those emotions out. For the first few days it is ok to cry and mope around and feel sorry about what you have lost. Get support from close friends if needed, but do NOT contact your ex. You need to let go of the relationship, act as if it is buried and gone.

2. Get rid of any evidence of your ex.

Go through all of your belongings and get rid of everything that reminds you of the breakup. Put away all photos of him and any gifts he gave you. As for what to do with them, it depends. You may want to pack up photos as possible mementos for years later. With gifts, you may want to pack them up, sell them, give them away, or donate them. It is completely your decision as to what to do; however, be sure to get everything out of your sight.

Don’t forget to change or remove any of your ex’s playlists on your iPod or MP3 player. Change your telephone ringtones if necessary as well. Eliminate all traces of him from your life so that there will be nothing to remind you of him on a daily basis.

3. Make a list of what irked you about your ex.

Yes, right now you are still missing him because he dumped you; however, take a few moments and think about how your relationship really was. There had to be some habits or quirks about your boyfriend that you found to be exasperating. Write these down–as many as you can. Think about everything, from big issues (maybe he refused to stop talking on his cell while driving, even though you considered this to be dangerous) to the little concerns (perhaps he often spilled sugar on the counter when making his morning coffee and never wiped it up).

The point of making this list is to show you that your relationship was not perfect and that your ex is not worthy of being “worshiped”. In addition, you may just see that there were troubles in the relationship… and that perhaps a part of you already realized that you two weren’t the ideal couple.

Maybe he dumped you – but you will survive and find a way to move on if you follow these suggestions.

4. Move on, start dating someone else

By dating someone else you’ll get yourself out of the mode of being rejected and start feeling wanted again. You don’t have to take it serious. When I was divorced I created profiles on many dating sites, and set my intention to “casual dating, nothing serious”. You can do the same and start feeling “wanted”. This totally changes your mode and makes you eager to move on and see what’s possible out there for you. I didn’t have to see anyone though because my ex asked me to take take her back and I couldn’t live without her so we got each other back 2 weeks after the divorce, but that’s another story for another post.

Click here to do as I did, create a free profile and see what’s out there …

Does My Ex Still Love Me


If you can’t seem to get your ex off out of your mind, you are probably wondering if your ex is feeling the same way about you. And, it is likely that you have been thinking about reconciling with your ex. You are curious about the possibilities; however, you want to be cautious because you don’t want to face another breakup. You want to know for certain if the question “does my ex still love me” can be answered with a “yes”!

Of course, you cannot exactly see what is in another person’s heart; however, there are several distinctive signs that will tell you without a doubt if your ex is still in love with you. Check out the following list–if any of these characteristics describe the behaviour of your ex, then you can be sure that your ex definitely loves you.

Your ex keeps an eye on you behind your back.

Any ex who does this is most assuredly still in love! After all, why else would he care about how you have been doing or what is going on in your life? If he asks your friends about you or if he has his friends ‘accidentally’ run into you in order to check up on you, this is a very positive sign.

When you speak with your ex, he continually brings up memories of when you were together.

If he is thinking a lot about the good times of your relationship, he is thinking about what it would be like if the two of you were back together. Chatting together about “remember when”s is not typical ex conversation–this means that he is feeling loving toward you.

Your ex contacts you frequently.

Most of the time when people break up, they don’t phone each other much. So, if your ex is calling you on a regular basis, this shows that he is thinking of you regularly.

Your ex seems to show up wherever you are. Has this happened again and again?

Well, it isn’t an accident that he is turning up all the time–no matter what he says. He keeps coming around because he has a need to be around you. His need to be around you comes from the love that he still has for you.

Your ex apologized for the breakup of the relationship.

This one is a biggie. A lot of guys have a hard time admitting that they are at fault in a relationship; therefore, if your ex apologizes for his wrong-doing in the relationship (regardless of whether or not that wrong-doing was the actual cause of the breakup), this shows that he really cares. It shows that he wants you to know that he feels sorry for how the relationship went and that he wishes he could make things right somehow.

All of these signs point to one clear answer–love. You don’t need to wonder “Does my ex still love me?” any longer. Just think about your ex’s behaviour, and you will know.

One last thought on this subject, since you are trying to figure out whether your ex still loves you it means to me that YOU still love him (or her). If so why not try to get him back with a tried and proven strategy? Fill the form below:

Samples of Maid of Honour Speech

Prepare your best maid of honour speech

maid-of-honourSo finally someone is getting married. Congratulations, and good for you for being chosen to be the maid of honour. Whether it’s your best friend, sister, or cousin, you’re lucky you’ll be at the spot light, go down the isle, give a speech and suggest the toast.

And don’t worry about being nervous. Some people say public speaking is more scary to them than death itself, probably because death just happens while a speech is something you do.

Anyway, there’s nothing to fear. All what you need to do is write it down, memorise it, and rehearse in front of a mirror. If you feel nervous before the speech try to meditate for 5 minutes. But please don’t use alcohol to relax you, it could work against you.

In the following few paragraphs you’ll go through some samples of maid of honour speeches and my commentary on them, what they did write, and what is that they did and you should not do.

Have fun 🙂

Click here to download the only reference you’ll need to write the best maid of honour speech.

Sample of a funny maid of honour speech

In my opinion it is funny but inappropriate. Also she’s not herself and looks like she needed to practice more on reading it flawlessly.


A really good idea for a maid of honour speech

Basically what she did (if you don’t have 3 minutes to watch it) is that she talked about numbers that she explained their importance to the audience (I like what she said about number 1). At the end she presented a lottery ticket with all of those numbers on it.

One of the best maid of honour speeches

The reason I am rating it as one of the best is that they maid of honour is obviously relaxed and is talking naturally and her speech sounds like coming from the heart. She is also the sister of the bride, this could be an advantage because she knows a lot about the couple being married and she can give details that make a difference.

It’s funny and loving.

Tips for a good maid of honour speech

made-of-honour-speechI can’t say “a great” one because this greatness doesn’t come only from writing and rehearsing. It also involves the performance in the wedding. These tips can also be used for preparing any speech, just use common sense and put things into context.

1. Ad you see from the above maid of honour examples it’s better to be short. 5 minutes, give or take, is an optimal one. There’s no need to keep talking unless you have a lot of exciting stuff to share and the attendees are interacting with your speech.

2. Be appropriate. You can be funny without using any swear words or embarrassing stories. There will be audience (for you as a speaker) from all ages and what you think is funny for young ones is probably an insult for elders to hear. Be considerate.

3. Relax. Nothing can go so wrong with the maid of honour speech that could ruin the wedding, simply because your speech comes after they’re officially married. So there’s only some more fun to add, and if not there will be someone else to fix it. Don’t worry. Just don’t drink before your speech to stay in control.

4. You hear the “be yourself” advice a lot from everyone. You see the above 3 examples? This is what it means. Just let it go. If you rehearse properly you’ll find it easy to let go and be yourself and to relax. The confidence you’ll gain from preparation is the key.

5. Make the bride look like the best friend ever, the most beautiful woman on earth, the closest person to your heart … flatter her. But again, don’t exaggerate. Build this part around her strong points.

6. Don’t forget the groom. You are there for him too. The third video above shows one good example of doing it. That’s one more reason I think it’s a good one.

More professional help

The more examples you have the better you can prepare. I know that. You can watch some more on youtube, or you can have some written and use them as a template to write your own, then practice on saying your speech guided by the videos.

Click here to download the only reference you’ll need to write the best maid of honour speech.

Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler’s kind of romance

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Romantic movies used to give me a sense of discrimination based on gender. In most of the movies there is a guy who loves that girl and tries to win her heart and at the end of the move he finally does it and becomes happy. Although the story tries to say that they both lived happily ever after you can not help but notice that the main focus of the story is the happiness of the guy, with little emphasis on the girl who is considered a prize to be won by most romantic movies.

These thoughts do not attack me when I watch a movie for Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler. Since their first movie together “the wedding singer”, then “50 first dates”, and finally their latest “blended”, there are two parallel stories that put equal emphasis on both of their lives, problems, pains, dilemmas, and finally they both find out that their happiness in each other’s arms.

Now this is the kind of romance that I call “fair”. And I reflect on real life with good feelings towards my wife (yes I am a guy, and yes we exist) after watching any of the three movies above. This kind of fair romance is the one I want for my daughters in their relationships.

The most important thing about a successful relationship from my perspective is fairness. A balance between the needs, desires, ambitions, and dreams of both the boy and the girl should exist. And it’s easy to achieve considering that most of the needs and desires are common between them anyway, and if they get to know one another before marriage they can figure out if their dreams and ambitions could be shared or not.

Things come up and circumstances change, and only fair love can help a relationship continue to navigate through life.

Also the kids who will grow in this environment of love and fairness will learn the two most important characteristics humans need these days.

Ghomeshi’s sexual harassment, Dating sites rapist, and more to awaken daters

If you are aware of the Ghomeshi’s harassment lawsuits you would know where this post is going without reading the rest. You think you know the person until you get shocked with his face showing on the news stations following the lawsuits by his victims who came forward to report his abuse while working at CBC. Also in the news there’s the story of Mr. Banks who was accused to two counts of rape. Mr. Banks met the victims online on dating sites. They both assumed he is a good Christian man until they met in person and he proceeded with raping both of them in two different occasions of course (2009 and 2012).

The thing is you can’t trust anyone anymore. The days where the rule is that every one is good except for really a few who don’t count and can be easily identified because they are not trying to camouflage as innocent lamps. These days sexual predators are  using technology to hide behind a screen name and a fake profile. It’s easy to do if you have been using the Internet long enough to have your own free email address.

Many stories like these didn’t make it to the top of the news. One of the stories I found is about a woman who is suing a dating site for $1M because the person they matched her with stabbed her and left her to die. Another story is about a serial scammer who promises women on dating sites he will marry them and get them to invest in his bogus investing company. And I know a lady who has been approached by a scammer on a dating site but she was intelligent enough to spot him and report him to the site to get his account deleted.

But so what. He can sign up again with a new profile, new picture, and a new name.

Have you ever heard of the term “catfish” in the online dating context? It’s easy to fake a profile with pictures and everything and you will be approached by people who are interested in what you showed them. This is what dating sites do.

Many of examples are shocking. Like a girl falling in love with the man she met online just to discover that it’s a catfish woman. She used pictures of a hot sexy young man to attract hot women just for fun.

Another incident an American football player’s girl friend who has been in contact with his teammates and family for an extended period of time just to discover through the catfish show investigations that it’s a boy!

The examples are endless. You can imagine any scenario for the outcome of being matched with someone on a dating website, but the rule is still that most members are honest and you are most likely going to be matched with a real genuine person who is serious about his relationship. Most of these sites are paid and no one is going to pay a dating site every month to have fun playing with the emotions of other members except in rare cases when the person is a total psycho.

However, the danger is still out there and there is a possibility that you might end up matched or approached by one of those. In that case you know what to do.

First you don’t meet your match in a private place until you got a chance to know him/her in person meeting in public places or with company of someone you trust.

Second don’t give private or sensitive information about yourself online. A first name is more than enough until you get to know your match really well.

Limit your matching options to your local reach. Don’t get matched with someone who lives a thousand mile away unless there is a good reason for it. A local match is easy to check their background and ask about them in their work place and neighborhood.

To keep it clean for you and other users, once you spot someone or something suspicious reported to the administration of the dating site of interest. Make sure they keep you anonymous for your safety.

When it comes to work place you are protected, just use your right. If your boss touches, gropes, or fondles you (these are the words used by one of Ghomeshi’s victims) don’t wait until you find another job. Report it immediately to the higher level or to the police if your boss is the highest level in your workplace. Don’t wait for 10 years to come forward with your case and let your abuser free to abuse you and others.

That’s it for today. Stay safe and use common sense. People are people whether you meet them online or in real world. Likewise, a rapist is a rapist whether you meet him on a dating site or in the Church. It’s your call.


Breakups, Kids, and the Holidays

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Text your ex back … use technology to your favor

Save my Marriage

The holidays season is around the corner, and it is a good time to decide whether you want to continue in this relationship. The kids are looking forward to what “Santa” is going to get them for being good boys and girls throughout the year. They have no idea that this year there might be two “Santas”.

Fix my marriage
Avoid these mistakes and start fixing your marriage

As parents you don’t live this life for yourself alone. If that was your idea of life you shouldn’t have had any children. Once they are here our mission in life is to get them to the adulthood the safest and most efficient way possible.

Due the recent increase in the rates of divorce over the past few decades we have generations of corrupt minded people and unfortunately some of those are reaching leadership positions and ruining the lives of people in their scope of authority.

For these generations it is normal to live with only one parent, mostly the mother. The absence of the father (the real one who’s supposed to care more than a step father) is one of the reasons that most men in the current generations don’t know how to be fathers, simply because they haven’t seen it being done in front of them.

This have created a mass of selfish men who think of their relationships as a way to fulfill their desires without any kind of responsibilities towards their partners or the kids who might result from their joy.

The same generation also has an abundance of women who grew up watching their mothers being everything in their lives. Those women either are shaped to do the same and have no idea how it looks like to be in a full relationship with a responsible man, or are not willing to be responsible for raising any children. The latter group has a high rate of sterilization procedures and abortions.

Walking through this life has been for thousands of years as families. Bachelors had no place in any community that ever existed until 50 years ago.

So before you decide to end this relationship think of your kids and how their future, and the future of humanity will be if you do. If you are thinking of “changing” your life partner think again about how your kids will grow watching their parents having fun ignoring their right to grow in a normal family of a father, a mother, and their kids.

Also the holidays season is an opportunity to try to fix whatever has gone wrong in your relationship. A nice gift that your spouse will appreciate is the first thing that should come to your mind. The outcome of giving this gift is priceless if things go the right direction.

And listen: there’s nothing that you have done wrong in your relationship that can not be forgiven. I have seen families on the verge of splitting because of one unfaithful partner, who’s been caught red handed while his wife is morning one of her parents (true story) and after the storm ended they sat down together and fixed it. Will write about this story later in a different post, but for now just be confident that even cheating can be forgiven and a relationship could be reconciled afterwards.

And from the opposite perspective, if you think your spouse is a hopeless case, think again. After divorces and breakups many people use their pain to fuel their success afterwards. So it’s possible to change. It’s possible to get over that addiction that you think is ruining your life. It’s possible that the failure your husband is going through could transform into success. It is possible that whatever you think is destroying your life to be changed for good. People change, so why not change while still together?

Think about it, about your kids, about your future, and give it another chance. Seize the holidays opportunity to fix it and start a new page in your lives together. Be prepared to offer sacrifices before you ask for any from your spouse. And pass this post to them so that you two will be on the same page with you.

Happy holidays, and God bless your families.


An Ancient, Yet Revolutionary Way to Get Over Your Ex

Have you ever heard this quote before “Whether you think you can do it, or you can not do it, you are right”? I think that was Henry Ford, and he was right. And before you jump to a conclusion that this is a motivational article please let me assure you that you could not be further from the truth.

This article is not to motivate you. I assume you are motivated enough to search for a solution to get over your ex and land on this article.

It’s not about motivating you, it’s about helping you find the power within you to get over your ex, or any hardship you might be going through right now.

At the time of writing this article I have been separated from my wife for almost 2 years. During these 2 years I had never seen her. We talk from time to time on the phone or any web based chat service because we have kids divided between the two of us, but that’s about it.

But this is not the hardship I was going through, although it could be hard enough for some others.

A year before the separation I lost my job, and my business that was supplementing our income took a dive a year before that. So I ended up with zero income and a child to take care of.

And if that was not hard enough for you, I’d like also to tell you that one of my kids I had never seen before. Yes, my wife was pregnant when she left and my baby is now 15 months old now.

And to make it even worse, I have no idea where they are right now!

Not hard enough? Ok take this: She left me with $24,000 debt that I need to pay off.

It’s not over yet. Also I was supposed to start looking for a place I can afford to rent and that was supposed to be done in 3 months while I had no source of income and obviously no one will want to rent to me. The ghost of being homeless with my 8 years old girl haunted me day and night. I couldn’t sleep for more than 2 hours straight every night.

Add to that stress the high blood pressure I am suffering from and the sleep apnoea … the whole thing was killing me.

You want to know how I got over all of that, paid off half of my debt so far, got a source of income to survive with my daughter, and a new bigger and better place to live in? 

Ready for it?

Here it comes:

God did it for me.

God helped me get over it.

God helped me relax and focus.

God provided for me and my daughter during the darkest times I’d ever been through so far.

I turned to God with full faith that He is the only one who can help. People were mostly letting me down or helping for a purpose, except one or two who say they did it for God. So still it’s God who did it for me.

Before that I had been a frequent worshipper and my prayers are the only part of my life that had never changed since I was a pre teen. However, I had never been in peace with myself and as close to God as I am right now.

I always had worries about tomorrow, my career, my family, my kids, my financial status … I was always worried.

Now I learned to live one day at a time. Today my goal is to go through the day with meals on the table, clean place to live in, clean cloth in the closet, and a happy healthy child who goes to bed praying for her mom and dad to be safe and in peace (after she’s done with the homework of course :-)).

To get there I started applying some calming techniques before I do my prayers. I also started meditating in my prayers, not just repeating the phrases and verses I memorize since I was 4! I tried to connect with the Lord (if I can say that). I got in tune with the universe that God created. I got peace! My prayers were answered.

I thought my God is the only one who can help. God answered by helping. That’s all there is about it.

To be honest with you I started writing this article with the intention to warm you up as a reader of my blog to sign up for a training on meditation (that works with any religion by the way). Just now I realized I was telling you how my faith increased and how I got closer to God and that He is the one who helped me out.


How to get back at your ex

On this blog you’ll find many posts with advice on how to get your ex back. This post is on how to get back at your ex. Not all break ups end up with one of the couple trying to get the other back. Many do, but many others just want to revenge it.

Revenge is going to make you feel better a little and only for a short time. After that you’ll regret it and wish you can ctrl-z it.

In this post you’ll learn how to get back at your ex without doing anything stupid, crazy, or unlawful. To the contrary it will make you only feel better without any regrets. You might as well wish you have done it earlier in your life.

Get back at your ex: get in your best shape
Get back at your ex: Get in your best shape ever

Here goes: get in your best shape ever.

That’s right. Workout, lose some weight if you need to, achieve more in the gym … you got it, right?

Two things will happen when you do:

1. Your ex will regret breaking up with you. They might wish they gave it some more time to work out. They might even try to get back with you. It’s up to you though.

2. Your ex and every one you know will start thinking that your ex was holding you back from being the best you could be. This alone is a killer. Feeling that your success was only waiting for your ex to get out of your way could make them lose sleep at night.

There’s a say going around on body building websites about how breakups create body builders. It is true if you use the breakup negative energy to fuel your desire to achieve more in the gym.

And this is for both boys and girls. Girls don’t have to look like beasts, and they actually don’t just by going to the gym and lifting weights. Steroids do, so stay away from those and you’ll be fine.

If the muscles/gym thing doesn’t appeal to you, find something you were putting off and pursue it with determination that it will be the success of your life. Education is an example.

As you see, the whole idea is to use the negative energy you’re getting from the break up to fuel your success. Transform your anger into motivation.

Christian-Matchmaker: get back at your ex by finding your real soul mate
Get back at your ex by finding your real soul mate: Christian Matchmaker.

How about dating someone?

As you might have read some where here on this blog and on other places, another way to get back at your ex is by dating someone else. Some would recommend dating his/her friend.

Although this could be one of the best ways to get back at your ex, it is also one of the best ways to backfire at you if you do it too early.

A breakup could leave you emotionally imbalanced. This will sure affect your relationship related decisions. You might act or behave differently than you really are and send your new date a mixed message about who you are. The person you’re seeing is not going to appreciate what you’re going through enough to delay his/her judgement on what kind of person you are. So instead of getting back at your ex you are hurting yourself.

The other reason why you shouldn’t use dating as a way to get back at your ex is that after the dust settles and you think of the whole thing with more stable emotions you might decide you want to get back with your ex and become willing to do some changes to adapt. Using the dating method above will make it harder, and might ruin your chances of getting back together completely.

So focus on yourself. Help yourself become your best.

How to Make a Woman Laugh

First why make a woman laugh

Make Her Laugh
Make her laugh … make her love you

romantic-blog_make-her-laughAs you might have heard, and I’ll quote Marilyn Monroe here, “if you can make a girl laugh you can make her do anything”. This is a very powerful statement from Marilyn Monroe, given that status she had.

And she was right. The right kind humour helps you achieve 3 things with the woman:
1. Get her attention in a positive way,
2. By making her laugh you’re making her feel good; another point in your favour, and
3. You come across to her as relaxed, confident, intelligent, and challenging.

Once you’ve done all three things to any girl you are ready for the next step in your relationship with her …

but only if done the right way …

You want to come across to her as Don Juan, not a clown!

Don’t Turn her Off with the Wrong Kind of Humour

Marilyn Monroe: "If you can make a girl laugh you can make her do anything"
Marilyn Monroe said: “If you can make a girl laugh you can make her do any thing”. Do you agree?

You can make a girl laugh in so many ways, one of them is by making her laugh at you by making a fool out of yourself! You don’t want that. As I said above you want to come across to her as Don Juan, not a clown.

Think of any one of the most popular comedians and do a little bit of research around their relationships with women, you’ll find that you can easily classify comedians into two categories when it comes to the number of hot celebrities who fell in love with them: Winners and Losers!

There is a common theme here if you pay a little attention: all of the losers provide the kind of comedy that makes the audience laugh at them, not with them.

There is also a common theme in the kind of comedy that the winners provide: they don’t necessarily look that they are telling a joke, on the contrary you might laugh only because of the seriousness on their faces while telling the joke or picking up the line.

Turn her on with high status humour

make her laughThis kind of humour, where the target will be laughing “with” you instead of “at” you is what’s known as “high status humour”. This is the kind of humour that leaves the audience (by which I mean your girl) happy, feeling good, and still have all the respect for you that you deserve.

Here is what it means: make her laugh out of amazement of how you get to make things fun even if they are not. Come across as the confident man who lives life to the fullest and enjoys it while keeping everything else taken care of. This is the serious/funny combination that she’s missing. If she finds it in you … you’re gold.

This kind of humour is what makes the difference between WINNERS and LOSERS.

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How to make her laugh | Tips

1. Applying high status humour (above) takes (and teaches) positive attitude and self confidence. When you’re positive and self confident you can turn embarrassing situations into fun and good laughter.

2. Don’t fake it … it will be obvious and you’ll come across as the clown I warned you from in the introduction.

3. Be relaxed and yourself. This will enable you to see the funny side in things. Now that you see it you can transfer this funny side to her and you’ll come across naturally funny.

4. Never ever make your girl the subject of your jokes!

5. Use situation humour instead …

Example: You just walked out of the men’s room and your hands are wet, you shake her hand and you apologize for the wet hands with a napkin and say something like: “sorry .. it’s just water” … like there is a chance that this could be urine :-).

6. While you’re not making your girl the subject of your jokes, don’t forget to make her feel that she is at the centre of your attention. Make her know you love her from your eyes.

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Top 2 Things Men are Terrified Of (and How to Help Without Letting Them Know You Know)

Can you really make a man love you?
Can you really make a man love you?

By Claire Casey

He will never tell you any of this.

In fact, he’s dying to read this article, but he would never let you catch him doing it, and he certainly won’t admit to wanting to know if his deep, dark secrets are hanging out like underwear on a clothesline. In the front yard. In the middle of a busy city. (Hah!)

Well, he won’t tell you, but I will.

But first, two warnings:

First, this isn’t a complete list. Of course! But I think these are the two biggest ones. (I’m working on more articles about a few of the others…)

Second, I’m not telling you so you can shame him. I’m doing this so you can help him. But you have to be sneaky, so that he doesn’t know. Be nice to your man – he worships the ground you walk on, and believe me, he knows a few of your dirty dark secrets, too.

On to the juice, shall we?

GUY FEAR #1: My sexual desires are NOT okay

I won’t tell you that old thing about how guys want waaay more sex than women do, because it’s actually not true. Women want it, we just want it under different terms. He just… wants it. Every possible way he can imagine it. With your sister, your mom, the librarian (definitely the librarian), the teenager snapping her gum behind the cash register. He’s even had a dirty fantasy about that weird shopping cart lady.

Sex movies of every description (multiple lovers, bondage, fetish, you name it) run in his brain nearly all the time, and sometimes what’s showing on the screen shocks even him.

Deep down, he’s terrified that he wants sex too much, or in the wrong ways, with the wrong people. His sex drive is a formidable machine, and it’s a testament to his power that he doesn’t let it drive his life, only his brain.

What YOU can do to help him

Creating an atmosphere of openness in your intimate life with him is the first step in making him feel less scared about his sexual desire. I’m not saying you have to DO everything that he THINKS about, but be willing to ask him to talk about his fantasies. Invite him to give you steamy details. Even the act of sharing can be a tremendous gift of sexual energy between the two of you.

Help him learn to make YOU the star of his sexual mind shows, even if all you do is tell him a dirty story during foreplay.

And finally, don’t forget to let him know you’re sexually satisfied! If you can do this, he’s going to become so riveted by you he’ll never want to let you go. EVERY man wants to know he can sexually satisfy a woman.

GUY FEAR #2: Other men will think I’m weak

You gotta feel for the men of our world. They’re expected to get a respectable paycheck, make us feel secure, (not think about sex so much), beat out the other guys, support the winning team, be tough, overcome all the obstacles in their way, scare away the bad guys, and never show fatigue, fear, or ANYthing except sheer strength and confidence.

It’s a lot to live up to.

It’s impossible to live up to, actually.

And yet that’s the challenge they hear every single day. And if they don’t answer it – actually DOMINATE it – their fear is that they will be publicly shamed, humiliated, despised… Not so much by you or by other women (although they hate the idea of that, too), but by other MEN.

But that doesn’t mean YOU don’t have power. Every man wants a woman who is unreservedly, whole-heartedly ON HIS SIDE. Your support actually adds to his power in the world of other men.

What YOU can do to help him

I have a question for you: if he’s fighting away on the field of his life, do you ever even show up at his game? And if you do, can he hear your enthusiastic, genuine support for him?

I’m not saying you have to actually get out your cheerleader skirt and shimmy and shout (although he’ll probably appreciate that, see #1 above!), but there IS a way to let him know you’re seeing how hard he works, and you want him to win.

Encourage him to tell you about his daily battles. Lean in and attentively soak up every bit. Ask for details. Don’t multitask while you’re doing this; give him your full focus. Be his raving fan.

And offer him your sincere admiration. Let him know how strong you find him, how amazing his accomplishments and abilities are. If you can make him feel like you believe in him and are on his side no matter what, you are going to ADDICT him to you.

3 Steps to make a man love you

If you’re sick of “Bad Boys,” “Players” and guys who just won’t commit, you need to go watch this new video renowned relationship expert Michael Fiore put up. It’s called “3 Steps To Make A Man Love You” and it teaches you how to make a man not just “fall” for a you… But to actuallymake him obsessed with you so HE decides he WANTS to be serious…

–> Make him powerfully addicted (in a really good way) to you!

Michael lays out the absolute truth about what men really want and need from a woman for them to be able to give EVERY THING to her… (In fact, he flat out tells you how his girlfriend CapturedHis Heart and made him fall for her HARD even though he was “playing the field” and thought he’d never settle down.)

How to ask her out?

How to ask her out? Watch this video first.
How to ask her out? Watch this video first.

Ok so you found that girl of your dreams and want to ask her out but you have no clue how to do that. Not to worry, you came to the right place buddy ;-).

First off I want you to know something. She is a human, not a thing. This means that she has her own world, and she might not be really what you want when you get to know her better. So don’t sweat it, if she’s not into you as you are .. so what!

With that in mind you should be relaxed and yourself when you ask her out. And here are some ways that worked for me or my friends.

Warning: Please please please, don’t stage it up. If things happen the way described below then you know what to do, if not don’t try to make them happen a certain way. It will be obvious that it’s not natural, and you don’t want that to happen the first time you ask her out.

1. And by the way … we’re going out!

This one is to use with someone you already know and you two are dealing with one another comfortably, like a classmate, room-mate a co-worker … a girl that you deal with regularly. Let’s say she’s your classmate and you want to ask her out. The two of you are in a group assignment and you meet in the library to work on it.

After you’re done with the group work, or even in the middle of the work, you may say something like this: “Let’s go grab some coffee” or lunch, or anything you know she might say yes to. If she says yes and while at the door you can say something like: “and by the way … we’re going out!“.

Here you go, you asked her out while going out already. If she’s interested you’ll see it on her face, if not she will tell you that no it’s just coffee or she’s seeing someone and so no.

You can also offer her your hand while saying your line … and once she touches your hand the magic will start.

2. Huff huff … would you be … interested in …?

Let’s consider this scenario. You are walking down the street and you see the most beautiful girl on the planet walking on the other side. You don’t know her name and you want to know her and ask her out.

One way is to run as fast as you can to the nearest traffic light or stop sign, cross like a civilized person, and keep running then slow down before you reach her (you don’t want to scare her ;-)) . Once you’re there go something like this:

Hey … huf huf … would you be … interested in dinner (lunch, coffee, whatever) … with me?”

Most probably she’ll go blank, smiling, proud, feel good about herself, thousands of thoughts through her head … or plain reach for her pepper spray or cell phone to call 911!

Anyways you continue …

“Josh” (whatever your name is) … and stick your hand out for a handshake.

She’ll go like: “oh hi … Susan” (or whatever) and shake your hand.

Then you repeat your offer with a smile and a gentle, loving, romantic, yet confident eye-contact.

This is the point when she’ll give you her answer. If yes … good for you. If no, you might have another chance if she’s not in a relationship already.

In both cases ask for her number, if she says no to your offer give her yours. You’d better be ready with business cards.

This also works if you see her in the elevator but you miss it and rush on the stairs to catch her and ask her out (she sees you before the door closes and when she gets out … romantic ;-)), or if she enters a crowded subway train and you make yourway to her in the crowd … just think of any obstacle that you could pass to get to her while she’s noticing your efforts.

3. Just plain ask her out!

I mean what in the world is holding you back. You want to ask her out and she’s right in front of your eyes. Be a man and go ahead.

In fact, some women prefer the straight forward man. They think if you are manipulative she’ll be in an insecure relationship with you.

Or …

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Stop The Divorce Even If You Started It

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First, if you were the one who made the decision to end the marriage and now you wonder “how can I stop my divorce?” you should realize that you’re in a much better position than most people trying to save their relationships.  You’ll need to swallow your pride and go to your spouse with an apology.  Explain that you acted hastily and that now you regret it.  Explain that you no longer want the divorce, and maybe even that you never wanted it but you spoke out of Save my Marriageanger and you were wrong.

This might seem a difficult step, but it’s necessary.  Since you were the one to bring up the issue of divorce, your spouse might have started seriously considering and thinking that it’s a good idea, too.  When you want to know, “How to stop my divorce,” you need to discover what your spouse thinks of the idea and make it clear that you were wrong.  Unless they’ve had a lot of time and reason to decide that you were right and divorce is the best step, you can probably save the marriage just by admitting you made a mistake.

If you’re wondering, “How can I stop my divorce when I didn’t want it in the first place,” then you have your work cut out for you.  You can explain, without judgement or accusations, that you think the marriage is worth saving and that you don’t want a divorce.  Chances are that you’ve done this, more than once.  But the way you say it can make a difference.

It’s important for you to be very mature and calm about it.  That’s not always easy to do.  Divorce is an emotional and painful thing.  But it’s one thing to cry while explaining that you want to stay married, and entirely another to yell or dissolve into hysterics.  If you scream, accuse or point fingers at your spouse, you’re giving him or her even more reason to want to get away from you. If you want to learn ‘how to stop my divorce’ you have to let go of the anger and resentment you feel toward your spouse for ever suggesting it in the first place.

You also have to be willing to work on your problems. You must agree that the relationship can’t go back to the way it was, but must change for the better.  Suggest marital counselling  Explain, “I want to stop my divorce,” but make it clear you know your spouse was unhappy with the way things were, and you’re ready to make them better.

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How To Stop A Break Up

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Just about every relationship has its fair share of trouble. Quite often, we are able to get past these bumps in the road and things work out fine. However, there are those times when you find yourself in such rough shape that you need to know how to stop a break up.

The very fact that you are reading this proves that you have an excellent chance of patching things up. Why? Because it shows that you still care and Save my Marriagethat you would like to do something to save your relationship. It’s going to take commitment and effort on your part, but it can be if you stick with it.

Here are a few things you can do to stop a breakup:

1. Determine the problem – Before you do anything else, you must figure out exactly what’s going wrong. Be careful here, because it’s all too easy to make assumptions. The stuff you and your partner have been complaining about may not be the real issues affecting your relationship. Your goal is to get to the root of the problem so you can address the root causes. Complaints usually reflect symptoms, not causes.

2. Come up with solutions – It will be much easier to come up with potential solutions when you know what the real problems are. Come up with as many positive ideas as you can, and don’t worry about how far-fetched they may seem right now. The secret is to come up with as many fixes as possible, and then sort them out later. You may have some wild ideas, and that’s okay. After all, you never know which ideas will actually work to stop a break up until you actually try them.

3. Get help – There is no rule that says you have to go it alone. Getting help from a relationship counselor or other trusted advisor is a great idea. They will be able to look at your relationship objectively, and then give you advice based on your particular situation. You need to make sure that the person giving the advice is qualified, and you also need to follow through on that advice if you want to see results.

4. Communicate effectively – Knowing what your real problems are, finding solutions, and getting help are still not a guaranteed way of how to stop a break up. There is one other key ingredient, and that is being able to talk with your partner in a meaningful way. Arguing is not an effective form of communication because it makes both of you defensive. You need to learn how to talk in a way that makes both of you receptive to each other’s ideas. This will take a lot of work at first, but it will get easier the more you do it.

Doing these things will help you to stop a break up, but they are only the beginning. Remember, every bit of helpful information you get and apply will increase your odds of working things out for good.

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Kissing Gets You In The Mood*

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*This article is a contribution by one of our readers who wants to stay anonymous. It is for “men” by a “woman” … I guess ;-).

Is it true that kissing gets you in the mood, and if so, is it the only thing that matters? For some couples kissing is thought to be the first step to a sexual encounter, but for most couples that is not accurate.

Sure, kissing gets you in the mood and it is usually the first physical thing that you do as a prelude to making love, but if you are doing it right it isn’t the first thing that gets you both worked up.

I’m not sure where I read it, but years ago I read a quote about how the best foreplay starts outside of the bedroom. And no, it wasn’t about sneaking some quality time in public.

The article was referring to the way a couple treats each other all day everyday and not just when they want to be intimate. My ex was terrible at this.

He seemed to think he could yell at me and call me names and then when he wanted to get intimate a kiss or two would be all it would take. Then, when I wasn’t in the mood, he would get angry and act like some sort of victim who I had just rejected.

He was totally clueless which is a big reason why he is an “ex”. He just didn’t get it. He didn’t understand that no one wants to be treated that way. Intimacy, true intimacy, happens all day long.

If you want your partner to respond to you sexually, you need to take the time throughout your day to let them know you care about them and that they are special and important to you.

You can’t honestly expect to treat them with indifference, or worse, anger and then think they will suddenly want to open up and be intimate with you when you decide that is what you want. Seriously!!??

So, while kissing may be one of the first physical steps to intimacy, it shouldn’t be the first step you take.

Try these things today and everyday. And remember, it isn’t about manipulating someone to get your way. It is about letting your partner know that you love them and need them all the time, not just when you are “in the mood”.

Ask yourself these questions:

1. When was the last time I gave my partner a gentle kiss, just because? Many of us make kissing a habit; we do it before we go to work, we do it before we go to sleep but as with most things that are habits, we don’t typically give much thought to it.

That is not the best way to make your partner feel special. When was the last time you just walked by and passed each other and you gave them a kiss? You should try it and see what happens. I’ll bet your partner is very happy that you did it.

Oh, and don’t make the mistake of doing it and then hoping you will have sex. That is tacky. Just show them that you love them with a simple kiss and no expectation of anything more.

2. When was the last time you gave your partner a hug for no reason? Again, I’m nKissing Gets You In The Mood*ot talking about as a prelude to sex but rather just a warm, loving hug with no thought to “getting something in return”.

True intimacy extends far beyond the bedroom or sex. It is about expressing love and appreciation for your partner during the day for no particular reason except that you love them.

So, while kissing gets you in the mood, it isn’t the only thing that will make your partner love you and want to be even more intimate with you.

Solid Game Plan To Win Love Back

There are many different ways that you can win love back, but the key is to begin with the basics. If you try to win love back, you are going to need to have a solid game plan coupled with a solid sense of confidence.

Every relationship has ups, downs and unique challenges, and a different strategy is going to be necessary for each individual situation. There is no real right or wrong answer set in stone when it comes to trying to rekindle a relationship.

Every relationship is going to come with its own unique challenges, and you need to come up with your own unique strategy for rekindling the relationship based on your own situation, rather than necessarily based upon the advice of others.

Even if you have friends, family members or other acquaintances that have been through similar situations, the solution they found in order to win love back may not necessarily work for you. This is because there are always underlying causes and other situations that come into play that may not necessarily have come into play in the other relationships.

One of the things that you need to consider when you are ready to win love back is that desperate behaviour will repel your lost love rather than allow you to rekindle things or attract them back. You need to take the time to identify the problems that broke the relationship up, and you need to begin crafting a solution accordingly in order to win love back rather than repelling it further.

The best way to approach the situation when you are ready to win love back is to start at the beginning. Work hard and prove yourself like you did when you first met him or her.

One of the most common mistakes that is made when it comes to trying to win back love is focusing on everything that went wrong rather than trying to focus on the good things that made the relationship strong in the first place. Change the situation, start fresh, and you will be able to win love back even when it feels hopeless or like a lost cause.

If you are placing any undue restrictions on your lover or spouse, now is the time to let them go. Don’t put restrictions on your love, or they may find themselves resisting you, which will undo your hard work and progress when it comes to rekindling the relationship and learning how to win back love.

Now is the time to let tensions slide and focus on the positive nature of the relationship. What drew you to your significant other, and what drew them to you? Focus on these good things and let the bad and negative feelings slide away. Once you can prove yourself again, learning how to win love back will be easier than ever.


Reignite Your Burned Out Relationship

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Learning how to win love back may be able to reignite a burned out relationship. Love is a truly fickle emotion that can burn out just as quickly and suddenly as it was originally ignited. When outside factors, such as money for example, create stress in a relationship that love is most at risk. Once relationship problems become an issue, love can quickly deteriorate with no resolution in sight. Here are some basic strategies that will show you how to win love back:

* Be Honest – Distrust is one of the leading causes of problems in a relationship. It is extremely important that you are honest with your partner on every possible level, even in situations where the truth is painful. This means that you need to be upfront with things that are bothering you, and you also need to be open about every day activities like finances and how you are doing at work. No one likes to feel like they constantly have to watch over their significant other, so if you want to learn how to win love back, you need to make a commitment to honesty.

* Be Encouraging – Love is all about appreciating one another for who you are and this is a big step in learning how to win love back. Your partner may have different goals and interests than you. The key is to embrace them even if you do not agree with them, and support them with all of your heart. Encourage growth in your partner’s interests, and you will be promoting growth in your relationship.

* Be Dependable – Being dependable is an important part of rebuilding trust with your partner, and learning how to win love back. When you want to learn how to win love back, you need to learn how to follow through with the promises that you make, and you need to make an effort to be on time with the appointments that you make.

* Listen Actively – Communication is one of the most vital ingredients in every healthy relationship, so if you want to learn how to win love back, you need to learn how to communicate more effectively. Not only does this mean that you need to learn how to speak better, but also learning how to listen better as well. This is one of the true keys to learning how to win love back, and no relationship is solid without healthy and proactive communication.

Keep in mind that all relationships have ups and downs, even the best ones. If you want to learn how to win love back, you need to be willing to learn how to take action and , as this will make your partner feel alienated more than anything. So if you are ready to learn how to win love back, take the aforementioned advice to heart and take action once and for all.

Relationship Break Up And Emotional Stages

The emtional roller coaster of a painful breakup generally affects both parties in similar ways.  The intensity may be different for the person who wanted the breakup than for the ‘dumpee’, but both people will go through the emotional stages of a relationship breakup.
Knowing and recognizing the different steps for what they are can help you move through the process a little easier.  Each stage is necessary so you can heal and be whole and able to find love again some day.  Don’t try to shrotcut the steps, just remember that after you’ve gone through each step you will be on the road to feeling better.

There is no time limit for how long each step should take to get through. How long it takes will depend on a lot of things such as how secure you are in  yourself and what type of a support system you have.

Here are the 5 major steps in a relationship breakup:

1) Pain.  This will often hit hard and fast.  At first the pain can be diminished somewhat by a feeling of disbelief but once that passes the pain can seem unbearable.  This is a physical pain.  You might not be able to eat or sleep.  Everything seems like too much effort. You just want to crawl into a corner and be left alone.

2) Denial.  This is the step when you start thinking that it is all a big mistake and surely your ex will realize it very soon and the two of you will be back together.  That can be a dangerous way to think.  It is important that you try to move through this stage as quickly as possible.  Lingering too long in this stage can really make it harder to heal and move on.

3) Anger.  This is when all your fear and hurt turns to anger.  You are outraged that someone who claimed to love you could hurt you so deeply.  This stage is very destructive and hurtful to both parties and if you’re not careful how you handle this stage you migh sabotage any chances you have of getting back together.

It’s also important to make sure you don’t become overly bitter.  If you let that bitterness grow too strong it could follow you into other relationships making it harder to ever having a fulfilling relationship again.

4) Grieving.  At this stage you will mourn your lost relationship.  You will often spend a lot of time reminiscing about all the good times the two of you had shared.  It is very important to keep a close watch on your mental health during this stage.

If you ever feel like ‘ending it all’ make sure you seek help immediately.  It is impossible to believe while going through this but you really will love again, if you allow yourself to.

5) Acceptance.  You will finally reach a point where you realize it’s over.  You are stronger and better able to start thinking more about your future and less about your past. This time can be bittersweet: you’ve realized and dealt with the fact that your relationship is over which is sad, but you’re also excited about new opportunities and convinced you will find love again.

The more you know about the  emotional stages of a relationship breakup and how to deal with them the easier and quicker you can move on from living in the past to a bright new future.  Just make sure you understand that this is all normal and it will get better, just hang in there.

Advice On How You Can Stop A Divorce

You can save your marriage even if only you want it.Divorces are at an all time high.  Sometimes it seems that it’s easier to get a divorce than to get married.

People get hurt in divorce.  The parties are forever scarred.  Children, if there are any, never get over the hurt.  Knowing this, you may be wondering “How do I stop my divorce?”

There are three steps to stopping a divorce.

The first thing that you have to realize is that saying you’ve changed does not mean you really have changed.  If you are the person who is at fault in the relationship, it’s not enough to give lip service to the idea of change.

If you have been having affairs, for instance, it is going to take time for your partner to believe that you are no longer going back to your wandering ways.  It is not enough to tell your partner that you’re not stepping out anymore.  You will have to take concrete actions.  As an example, you may need to allow your partner to “monitor” your activities by checking in with him or her on a frequent basis.  If your job requires you to travel, you may have to look for a new job that keeps you close to home.

Other things besides affairs can mess up a relationship.  For instance, if the wife’s spending habits are causing money problems which weaken the marriage, she may have to commit to cutting up the credit cards and living on a cash allowance.  If the husband’s work habits keep him away from home too often, he may have to commit to being home by 6:30 every night no matter what.  At the crux of this step is what is the most important thing in your life?  If it is your marriage, you will make the necessary changes.  But don’t just give lip service to them.  Actions speak louder than words.

The next step is to avoid using emotional blackmail if you want to stop your divorce.  Recognize that love is NOT enough to save your marriage.  Telling your partner, “but I love you” in the heat of an argument will not win you any points.  When you say “I love you” at inappropriate times, your partner is forced to say “I love you, BUT…”  this weakens the emotional tie that love has between you.

Use the powerful “I love you” message when your wounds are mended, not at the heat of an argument.

You can’t use logic or guilt to change your partner’s mind.  Arguing like this will only involve a spiraling argument.  If you feel you must win, then you will lose.

Finally, don’t think that you can win an argument.  Some people like to use their superior logic or argumentative skills to “prove” they are right and their partner is wrong.  This may work in a formally scored debate, but in a marriage (which is scored on emotions not facts) it’s sure to fail.  Instead of arguing, solve the problem.  If your spouse brings up a fault in you, discuss possible solutions rather than argue back.

Are you wondering how to “stop my divorce?”  Start by following the “stop my divorce” advice I’ve laid out in this article.

Signs Of A Toxic Relationship-Is It A Wasteland

p3.2-300-x-250-01There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but most couples are able to fall in love and stay in love. However, there are also going to be times when even the happiest of couples hit a bump in the road. When these bumps become the norm, it’s time to start watching for the signs of a toxic relationship.

Before we get to those signs, it’s important to define what we mean. A toxic relationship is more than just hitting a few bumps in the road, it’s the type of relationship that starts to make either of you feel like a bad or inferior person. It’s the kind of relationship that continually gets worse instead of better.

Here are a few of the classic signs of a toxic relationship:

1. Your partner is emotionally, physically, or mentally abusive or manipulative.

2. You compromise your principles or make changes that go against your beliefs, just so your mate won’t get mad.

3. Your partner tries to make you depend upon them for your basic needs.

4. They take tight control of every aspect of your life and are checking up on you constantly to make sure you are doing what they want.

5. They freely insult and demean you in front of others.

6. You see no evidence of their love for you, even if they are always saying that they do love you.

Toxic people are like a form of poison; they slowly kill your soul and sense of self-esteem. Being in such a relationship is difficult, but getting out of it can be even harder. You may not even realize the situation you are in until it’s too late, and then you feel trapped at that point. Why does this happen?

The basic reason why people get trapped in toxic relationships is due to a cycle. The good news is that knowing what the cycle is gives you the opportunity to break free from that cycle. Here are the three main phases:

1. The Honeymoon Phase – This is the stage where you feel happy and that everything is okay. You have a positive outlook on the present and the future and things are going great.

2. The Problem Phase – Now the cracks appear in your relationships. Some of the signs of a toxic relationship have made themselves known, and you are feeling downright awful about. You may not know what to do at this point.

3. The Reconciliation Phase – This is the stage where your partner apologizes and promises to change. They may seem incredibly sincere, but all too often, the entire cycle starts all over again.

Now, it’s fair to give somebody a second chance, but how often can you repeat the cycle before it finally breaks you? If you find that you are repeatedly getting caught up in this cycle then you need to seek help and get out of the relationship. Find people who are supportive and make a clean break. It will be scary, but it will be worth it in the long run.

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